Hello dudesndivorce.com guys!
As I have pointed out before it is vitally important we keep aware of our own weak points. Sure, others MAY use them against us, but we do not want to fall victim to our own weaknesses now do we? Or rather become the master of our own demise? I think not.
If I may use myself as an example; I know when I am tired for whatever reason I tend to want to cut things short, to get things done with, as it were. Well, naturally, I tend to make some hasty decisions or stomp on somebody else’s feelings in the process. Neither one very good or productive on a regular basis.
So when I know I need to be involved in a discussion or situation in which I need to make clear and concise and important decisions I make every effort in advance to get a fair amount of rest to prepare myself for this situation. This helps me. This helps the people I’m involved with. It makes the whole process move smoother.
Now perhaps this isn’t a problem for you. Great! But that’s not my point. My point is, know what your weak point(s) are and make plans and or compensations for them so you aren’t the one paying a hefty price for it later on! Or some one else. (I don’t know about you, but it burns me even more to know someone else is paying for my mistake instead of me!)
See ya later,
Russ
