Hello dudesndivorce.com guys!
As I have met and conversed with men that are either married or in a long term relationship so often I have noticed that they seem to have entered a stage in their relationships in which their relations with their lady have become so divisive or contentious that they have become like enemies or opponents to each other either that or they have entered a phase in which, for whatever, reason they believe (or prefer to believe) this is case is true.
Certainly, each has it’s own tale and contributing factors. But there are also two patterns I have noticed in these same men and their relationships; they often have need to work on communication issues or their attitudes. As I have stated before on this blog, we understand that a relationship has two players in it, but we can only make changes in ourselves.
So the question is this; What brings us or you to the point that your wife (girlfriend, significant other) is now your enemy?
I mean certainly you both didn’t just wake up one morning and decide to become mortal enemies! Or sit down civilly over a cup of coffee and discuss it and decide to do this together! Some thing happened to cause this, perhaps a single event or a series of events that culminated in this disastrous condition your now in.
Think on this, gentleman, if this applies to you.
See you later,
Russ
