Hopefully, whether your a longtime reader of dudesndivorce.com or have just recently stumbled upon us, you have realized that renewal and rebuilding post divorce is a large part of our focus here. Naturally, we hope that a marriage would never come to divorce in the first place, but having both of us been veterans of the process we understand that it does nevertheless happen has much as you wish it would not.
Bill and I understand we would probably get more readers if we chose to appeal to those that merely want to vent their anger and hate over and over towards their ex-spouse (or future ex-spouse) and certainly there are a multitiude of web sites and blogs that cater to that. However, while we do understand that there is often anger and resentment and a whole host of negative emotions associated with a divorce, our message is that it should not dominate the rest of your life. Yes, it is probably wrong to deny that you have those feelings. But there are methods to process those emotions that allow you to move along your life in a positive manner rather than get stuck in that “divorce swamp” (Bill’s post April 11, 2009).
And that’s the message we would like to build on. Do everything you can to build a good healthy relationship in your marriage, but if you can not and divorce is the only option, realize that it is NOT the end of your life, but merely the beginning of another chapter.
See ya later,
Russ
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